Tuesday, March 31, 2020

We live in a world that responds to our longing

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We live in a world that responds to our longing; it is a place where the echoes always return, even if sometimes slowly. We need to have reverence always for the immensity that is inside us. We must remember, only in moments of breathing, of quiet, however quick or fleeting, can we discover a sense of our own beauty.

It deserves to be remembered that from ancient times, in quiet and solitude, we would discover that our soul had depth, danger, and unpredictability precisely because it was seen as the presence of the divine within us, precisely because in quiet and solitude we could hear The Still Small Voice. That same Holy Spirit which hovered over the surface of the waters before time existed? She hovers inside our very souls, quivering, waiting to be called upon, waiting to activate, waiting to create.

If we live outside ourselves, always reaching beyond ourselves, quickly pushing from one moment to the next, we avoid the call of our own mystery. To be holy is to be natural; but it is very difficult to be natural. It takes moments of breathing, of quiet, however quick or fleeting, to find what is natural. To be natural is to be at home with our own nature, not a nature of convenience, not a nature we put on every morning to solve the worlds problems, but the essence of the Eternal which makes up ever cell of our being.

If we expect the worst we will surely find it. If we expect nothing, that too we shall find, with abundance. Our expectation is both a creative and constructive force. If we expect to find nothing within ourselves, then we walk around a hollow shell. If we expect to find nothing but the repressed, abandoned, and shameful elements of our past, or if all we hear are echoes of a haunted hunger, all we will find is emptiness and desperation.

If we do not bring the kind eye of creative expectation to our inner world, we shall never rest in peace, or bring peace and comfort to any in our path. We'll only express our disappointment that nothing we can offer is perfect. Yet the very fact that we offer anything at all is the miracle, which is completed when what we offer is accepted. It's that circle of kindness which makes the angels sing and pleases God so ... Why do we make everything so complicated ... God is so simple ...

We put terrible pressure on our minds. When we tighten them or harden our views or beliefs, we lose all the softness and flexibility that makes for real shelter, belonging, and protection; we’re just quivering captives in a fortress of fear … that’s no shelter, that’s a prison.

Sometimes the best way of caring for our soul is to make flexible again some of the views that harden and crystalize our mind; for these alienate us from your own depth and beauty.

Where the imagination is alive with beauty, our spirit is refreshed with possibility, wonder is completely alive within our breast. Where the imagination is alive with beauty and possibility, we are safe to be awake and alive, to trust and fly. 

~a lot of this is John O'Donohue

Monday, March 30, 2020

There is a place in you where you have never been wounded


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<< Meister Eckhart (14th century German mystic), whom I love, said, “There is a place in the soul that neither time nor space nor no created thing can touch.” If you cash it out, what it means is that your identity is not equivalent to your biography and that there is a place in you where you have never been wounded, where there is still a sureness in you, where there’s a seamlessness in you, and where there is a confidence and tranquility in you. And I think the intention of prayer and spirituality and love is now and again to visit that inner kind of sanctuary.

Beauty isn’t all about just … nice … loveliness. Beauty is about more rounded, substantial “becoming”.

Beauty is about an emerging fullness, a greater sense of grace and elegance, a deeper sense of depth, and also a kind of homecoming for the enriched memory of your unfolding life.

… the dawn goes up, and the twilight comes, even in the most roughest inner-city place. And I think that, connecting to the elemental can be a way of coming into rhythm with the universe.

And I do think that there is a way in which the outer presence, even through memory or imagination, can be brought inward as a sustaining thing.

You know, there are individuals holding out on frontlines, holding the humane tissue alive in areas of ultimate barbarity, where things are visible that the human eye should never see. And they’re able to sustain it, because there is, in them, some kind of sense of beauty that knows the horizon that we are really called to in some way.

I love Pascal’s phrase, you should always keep something beautiful in your mind. And I have often … if you can keep some kind of little contour that you can glimpse sideways at, now and again, you can endure great bleakness.

Is everyone is an artist? … everyone is involved, whether they like it or not, in the construction of their world. So it’s never as given as it actually looks.

You are always shaping it and building it. And I feel that, from that perspective, that each of us is an artist. … I believe that everyone has imagination, that no matter how mature and adult and sophisticated a person might seem, that person is still essentially an ex-baby. And as children, we all lived in an imaginal world — you know, when you’d be told, “Don’t cross that wall, because there’s monsters over there,” my God, the world you would create on the other side of the wall! …

Meister Eckhart again: “So many people come to me asking how I should pray, how I should think, what I should do. And the whole time, they neglect the most important question, which is, how should I be?”

And I think when you slow it down, then you find your rhythm. And when you come into rhythm, then you come into a different kind of time. >>

John O'Donohue, "The Inner Landscape of Beauty." On Being. Krista Tippett.
full interview here -> https://bit.ly/3bzjSTQ

Sunday, March 29, 2020

This is the Time to be Slow ...

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“This is the time to be slow,
Lie low to the wall
Until the bitter weather passes.
Try, as best you can, not to let
The wire brush of doubt
Scrape from your heart
All sense of yourself
And your hesitant light.
If you remain generous,
Time will come good;
And you will find your feet
Again on fresh pastures of promise,
Where the air will be kind
And blushed with beginning.”
― John O'Donohue.
To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings. 

The Inner History of a Day by John O’Donohue

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No one knew the name of this day;
Born quietly from deepest night,
It hid its face in light,
Demanded nothing for itself,
Opened out to offer each of us
A field of brightness that traveled ahead,
Providing in time, ground to hold our footsteps
And the light of thought to show the way.
The mind of the day draws no attention;
It dwells within the silence with elegance
To create a space for all our words,
Drawing us to listen inward and outward.
We seldom notice how each day is a holy place
Where the eucharist of the ordinary happens,
Transforming our broken fragments
Into an eternal continuity that keeps us.
Somewhere in us a dignity presides
That is more gracious than the smallness
That fuels us with fear and force,
A dignity that trusts the form a day takes.
So at the end of this day, we will give thanks
For being betrothed to the unknown
And for the secret work
Through which the mind of the day
And wisdom of the soul become one.

— John O’Donohue (1954–2008)

This is another day, God.


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<< This is another day, God.
I know not what it will bring forth, but make me ready for whatever it may be.
If I am to stand up, help me to stand bravely.
If I am to sit still, help me to sit quietly.
If I am to lie low, help me to do it patiently.
And if I am to do nothing, let me do it gallantly.
Make these words more than words, and
give me the Spirit of Jesus. Amen. >>
~ The Book of Common Prayer, Ministration to the Sick, p. 461, "In the Morning"

Friday, March 27, 2020

“I was fresh off a destroyer with nothing to my name but a dance belt and a tube of chapstick ...

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I, yuh ... tried to pull on some shorts this morning and, err ... some Crisco, a pair of pliers, and a spatula came in handy to actually get them up over my, uh ... recent acquisition ... gewrl ... sissy gotta get MOOOVE ... got to GET out ! i'm not eating MORE, i'm eating about the same? maybe less? but i'm used to 8 flights of steps and at least a mile's walk every day down to, like, zero plus some Richard SIMMONS ! yes gewrl, Sweatin' with the Queens in Queens ! You can buy an electronic copy on Amazon for 7 bucks, and it's SO much fun. Anywho, LOVE you ! Happy Healthy Day to one and all. and here are some kisses for your journey from me right here in home at werk. WERK werk werk werk werk xoxo

Thursday, March 26, 2020

We do our nails on Thursdee

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TODAY IS THURSDAY. 
Jay Rogers taught me years ago, you know it's Thursday because Thursday is the day we do our nails.

So take a moment to at LEAST heat up some oil, or get some nice lotion and rub it into your cuticles. Push 'em back maybe. 

Give yourself a nice hand massage, it only takes a moment ... xoxo

Sassy Thursday Today

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I'm'a little SASSY today ... the SUN ! is out for the first time in a while and it's reviving my spirit ! Here's a happy THURSdee to ye and here are wishes that health and joy pour down on your head and trickle over to all whom you love, from me and mine to you, from right here from home at werk. WERK werk werk werk werk

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Serenity

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<< God, grant me the serenity to stop beating my self up for not doing things perfectly,
      the courage to forgive myself because
      I’m DOING THE BEST ! I CAN ! and working with what I've got,
      and the wisdom to know that you have my back and you already love me just the way I am. >>

Everything you done to me, already done to you.



#LentUnEdited

I just said to a friend, this is THEE hardest fast of any Lenten Practice ever: for my bitter black heart to resist the prayer to call down from heaven God's destruction upon all these asshats ... but maybe if I could pretty please have a seat at the opening of the Karma Cloud which HAS to eventually shit on their heads, right ?!? Doesn't have to be front row, I love a seat in the mezz ! That'd be nice...

I've always LIVED for Fran Lebowitz' take on this: << This is why there are so many Catholics in the world ... forgiveness ... 100 percent about forgiveness. The Christian God is a forgiving God. uh uh ... The Jewish God is a judge ... >>> xoxo #JustSayin #StaySweet #JesusLittleSunbeam ...

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

2020-03-24 NEW MOON ! Live with Joy and Live Live with Abundance !

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Glennon Doyle Melton quotes God to us (with my tweeks) ...

<I wish I could see you every day so that I can remind you how proud I am of you, how thrilled I am to know you, how much I miss you when we're not together and yet we're always together in my heart. I'd love to be able to tell you each morning "thank you" for the tireless and fantastic job you're doing ...
I see you and I know how hard it must be to do all you do and the killer is? you're always beautiful and graceful as you're doing it, beautiful inside and outside, scrubbed up or dressed down.
Your journey is such an inspiration to me and so many, 'cause you know what?
I quote you all the time ! and your words bring comfort to people you've never even met!
Did you know that when your face pops up in my spirit, tears of joy spring to my eyes? You are beloved.>

Just in case life is wearing us down, and just in case we don't remember how proud God is of us right where we are, don't forget also tells us (pretty) directly:

<You are my beloved!
I made you!
I delight in specifically who you are!
and everything you have ever been,
and are,
or will become,
is already approved and cherished by me.
Nothing you can ever do will make me love you more, nothing you can ever do will make me love you any less, nothing you can do is a surprise, and nowhere you go is outside my desired path for you.
You may not use the route I'm suggesting, but you're going to get exactly where I need you to be eventually.
I just want every wonderful thing for you,
so please love yourself harder,
continue to make appropriate, life-giving choices ...
stop hiding, stop waiting, stop apologizing,
live with joy and live life in abundance!
Come now! Just get up and dance with me!> xoxo Selah. xoxo

Saturday, March 21, 2020

10 minutes Dr. Seema Yasmin Answers 50 of the Most Googled Coronavirus Questions | WIRED


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10 minutes Dr. Seema Yasmin Answers 50 of the Most Googled Coronavirus Questions | WIRED:
University of Cambridge; Journalism, University of Toronto;
Biochemistry, Queen Mary University of London



Yasmin served as an officer in the Epidemic Intelligence Service at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention where she investigated disease outbreaks and was principal investigator on a number of CDC studies. Yasmin trained in journalism at the University of Toronto and in medicine at the University of Cambridge.
Yasmin was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in breaking news in 2017 with a team from The Dallas Morning News and recipient of an Emmy for her reporting on neglected diseases. She received two grants from the Pulitzer Center on Crisis Reporting. In 2017, Yasmin was a John S. Knight Fellow in Journalism at Stanford University investigating the spread of health misinformation and disinformation during epidemics. Previously she was a science correspondent at The Dallas Morning News, medical analyst for CNN, and professor of public health at the University of Texas at Dallas.
Her writing has earned awards and residencies from the Mid Atlantic Arts Council, Hedgebrook, the Millay Colony for the Arts and others. Her first book, The Impatient Dr. Lange (Johns Hopkins University Press, July 2018) is the biography of an AIDS doctor killed on Malaysia Airlines flight MH17. Her second book, Debunked! Pseudoscience, Medical Myths and Why They Persist, is forthcoming in November 2019. A major title about women is forthcoming from HarperCollins in 2020.
Yasmin’s unique expertise in medicine, epidemics and journalism has been called upon by The Presidential Commission for the Study of Bioethical Issues, the Aspen Institute, Skoll Foundation and others. https://youtu.be/JnD5nGbGW4g

NY's PAUSE: Policies Assure Uniform Safety for Everyone





IMPORTANT SCREEN SHOTS which outline NY's PAUSE: PAUSE stands for Policies Assure Uniform Safety for Everyone. PAUSE takes effect 8 p.m. Sunday night.
One policy is called "MATILDA'S LAW," named after Cuomo's 88-year-old mother: The most stringent rules are for New Yorkers age 70 or older: they must remain at home except for solitary exercise, wear masks in the presence of others, and check the temperatures of any essential visitors and aides. All other contact is prohibited.
100 percent of non-essential workers must stay home, and non-essential businesses must close.
We're NOT to take public transport, any non-essential gatherings are prohibited REGARDLESS of size, New Yorkers must remain 6-feet from one another when leaving the apartment for essentials like food and medicine, and sick New Yorkers should remain at home unless they need urgent medical attention.
These are not helpful hints," the governor stressed. "These are legal provisions, they will be enforced, there will be a civil fine and mandatory closure for any business that's not in compliance." Cuomo declined to discuss penalties for individuals, but said that violators would be addressed.
"essential business," healthcare workers, law enforcement, firefighters, transit workers, grocery workers, restaurant workers producing food for delivery and take out, delivery workers, child care workers, utility workers, auto repair workers, hardware store employees, and yes, liquor store employees, are considered essential (a full list from an executive order signed earlier this week can be seen here**). Mass transit will stay running to serve these essential workers. ** here: https://esd.ny.gov/guidance-executive-order-2026

We have to gamble on the invisible and risk all that we can see and taste and feel.

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“... sooner or later, if we follow Christ? we have to risk everything in order to gain everything.
We have to gamble on the invisible and risk all that we can see and taste and feel.
But we know the risk is worth it, because there is nothing more insecure than the transient world. For this world as we see it is passing away (1 Corinthians 7:31).
Without courage we can never attain to true simplicity.
Cowardice keeps us “double minded” — hesitating between the world and God.
In this hesitation, there is no true faith — faith remains an opinion.
We are never certain, because we never quite give in to the authority of an invisible God.
This hesitation is the death of hope.
We never let go of those visible supports which, we well know, must one day surely fail us.
And this hesitation makes true prayer impossible — it never quite dares to ask for anything or,
if it asks,
it is so uncertain of being heard that in the very act of asking, it surreptitiously seeks by human prudence to construct a make-shirt answer (cf. James 1:5-8)
What is the use of praying if, at the very moment of prayer, we have so little confidence in God that we are busy planning our own kind of answer to our prayer?”
~ Thomas Merton, Thoughts In Solitude #MeatNotMilk

Friday, March 20, 2020

Keep Calm and Sparkle On


I hate to tell you this, but I think it's time, and it's nice we've had all this time to lallygag aboot, but the time has arrived, children:
WE ! ARE ! THE GROWN-UPS ! IN THE ROOM !
it's not that they left, they're just all gone.

DON'T ! WATCH ! THE NEWS !
there is NOTHING helpful there, just unsustainable HYSTERIA.

Know what? as of [THIS MORNING] [X] number of people have the virus and [X] number of people in [INSERT YOUR TOWN HERE] have died.

Science tells us those numbers are going to increase.
Got it.
I don't need Mika or Ainsley breathlessly reporting how death and destruction are beating at my door.

Do you know how LARGE the United States is?
Italy is about the same size as California.
Italy is about 15 days behind us on this curve.

ALL the numbers are going to sound ENORMOUS eventually because the U.S. is ENORMOUS compared to all the other places on the planet.
China is about our size, but they they have about 1.1 billion people more than we do. They're also about three months ahead in this virus than we are.

The numbers are going to climb through about June, if the scientists are correct.

You wanna keep that hysteria up for three more months?
Cut the news off. Watch The Golden Girls.

Then the virus may go to sleep until the fall, and it might just come back again, so all the prep were doing is exactly what we're supposed to be doing.

Know what we can do as children of The Way?

Know what we can do as children of The Spirit?

Let's be the ones who maintain the peace.

Let's be the ones who encourage breathing.

Let's be the ones who spread beauty and joy and kindness and empathy, but let's not participate in hysteria, let's not point out The Lack 'cause things are in motion to supply the lack, which is still going to be there.

There are going to be things we can do ... there are hospitals asking us to SEW EASY SEW PERFECT ! masks and gowns, there's something.

What we can also do is #StayHome to #FlattenTheCurve.

and p.s., I know the Daily Office is often a drag. I know the Daily Office is often repetitive. But so is brushing your teeth, and eeew, you need to do that, and we need to hit those Hours.

PLEASE try Father Chip's morning prayer.** There are beautiful flutes and herons and guitars and wind chimes, and he places musical queues so that you can consistently mediate on the prayers, on the rhythm, on The Word, and allow all the blessings of The Holy Spirit to pour in to you so that you can breathe them out in to the world.

I loves ya, honey, I loves ya. Now let's get TO it and DO it !

Carry on. xoxo


** p.s.,  If you use third-party apps to play it on roku, firestick, your Droid or other phone device, just search "Morning Prayer from The Episcopal Church in Garrett County" and also HERE: http://bit.ly/1IEVxZc on the right-hand side is a link to a stand-alone, non-specific Morning Prayer audio file which plays in your browser, along with noontime prayer and compline. It takes about 20 minutes. It's so lovely and Father Chip's voice is so soothing with the flute and strings behind him. (p.s., it's also where I get the queue: "let us BLESS ! the lord!")

Thursday, March 19, 2020

Morning Prayer from The Episcopal Church in Garrett County


Here's another option in case you wanted to pick up the practice of reciting Morning Prayer, there is a beautiful podcast from The Rev. Dr. Chip Lee which recites Morning Prayer each day with lovely quiet and peaceful musical queues and prayers specific to each day of the week.

You can find it everywhere, and if you use apple podcasts it's HERE: https://apple.co/2TjqVLH. If you use third-party apps to play it on roku, firestick, your Droid or other phone device, just search "Morning Prayer from The Episcopal Church in Garrett County" and also HERE: http://bit.ly/1IEVxZc on the right-hand side is a link to a stand-alone, non-specific Morning Prayer audio file which plays in your browser, along with noontime prayer and compline. It takes about 20 minutes. It's so lovely and Father Chip's voice is so soothing with the flute and strings behind him. (p.s., it's also where I get the queue: "let us BLESS ! the lord!")

HISTORY from An Episcopal Dictionary of the Church:
In many times and places, daybreak has been a time of prayer. Jews prayed in their synagogues at sunrise as well as at other times each day. This Jewish pattern of prayer formed the basis of the Christian monastic Daily Office, with its prayers or "hours" at seven times in each day. Thomas Cranmer's revision of the Daily Office for the first English Prayer Book (1549) reduced the number of services to two-one for morning (Matins) and one for evening (Evensong or vespers). In the Second English Prayer Book (1552), the morning service was given its present name, Morning Prayer.
Many elements of Morning Prayer come from the monastic hours of matins (e.g., Venite and Te Deum), lauds (e.g., Benedicte, omnia opera Domini, a "chapter" of scripture, Benedictus Dominus Deus, collect of the day), and Prime (e.g., a second "chapter" of scripture and the Apostles' Creed). Psalms were recited at every one of the offices, with the whole Psalter recited once a week. In the 1549 BCP, psalms were read at both Morning and Evening Prayer, with the whole Psalter read "in course" once each month. In subsequent Prayer Book revisions, psalms have come to be used more selectively, although a monthly cycle of psalms read "in course" is still provided as an option. In the 1549 Prayer Book, the very short monastic "chapters" were lengthened to full chapters of both the OT and NT at both Morning Prayer and Evening Prayer. In the 1979 BCP, only one lesson must be read, and the appointed lessons are not so long.
Morning Prayer once was the chief Sunday service in most Anglican churches on three out of four Sundays, the First Sunday usually being a celebration of Holy Communion. This practice has not continued because the eucharist has been recognized as the "principal act of Christian worship on the Lord's Day" in most parishes (see BCP, p. 13), However, Morning Prayer is clearly designated as a daily service for the worship of the church. This usage reflects the ancient tradition of the Daily Office.

How Ya Baybee !


OH ! it's good to remember how BEAUTIFUL ! Ms. Charlayne Woodard is, and she's still out there spreading beauty and wisdom, writing and singing and dancing and acting. OH ! the joy she's brought me over the years, and joy is our brithright, I'm sure you'll remember. The Writings all tell us, RE-joice, and AGAIN I say, RE-joice ... we're never supposed to allow ourselves to be in a situation without joy, and it's always there bubbling up in the center of our being waiting to be fed with beauty and kindness and words of good cheer ... Let's go about finding that everywhere around us, shall we? I mean, now more than ever? right? LOVE YOUZE ! Here's to a beeyoodeeful day to you and yours from me and mine ... take some kisses for your journey from me right here in our home's Ladies-of-Llangollen Room at werk. WERK werk werk werk werk xoxo

Look at the Beautiful Lady ...


#LentUnEdited

Mommy's side was all women. My big sister told me often that I was Raised By Women For Women, and so I owe my entire being to every women who has ever taught me, held my hand, contributed to supporting and sustaining me, and I try to give back as often as I can.

My mother was somethin' ... when I talk about "Mama" and all her teachings and cookings and such, that's my grandmother. Mommy, her daughter, was undiagnosed with a panoply of mental instabilities, and hysteria, suspicion, uncertainty, rumours, instability ... 'tiz like mother's milk to me.

You know, growing up in olden times, I think each of us thought our home life was normal. I mean, sure, there were TV families, but no one really lived like that, and I didn't realize how completely wacky, let's say, my mother was until I was ... seriously, maybe out of college.

I always remember, very distinctly, the nuns who were Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary (IHM), Scranton, PA, telling us over and over again, that our earthly parents were merely CUSTODIANS of our lives and souls, and that our TRUE parents were God as our Father, The Blessed Virgin Mary (BVM) as our Mother, and Joseph, our earthly step-father, and as long as we threw ourselves in to complete devotion to the Holy Family, no harm could ever befall us.

I can't tell you how much that affected me. I remember so vividly whenever things would get bad, a practice I continue to this very day, I will gaze upon the face of Mary and be instantly calmed. Gewrl, you wonder why I'm so dramatique? and love flowery language? Get THIS prayer we would say. FLY ! away ... I've got to FLY ! away ...

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that NEVER was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I FLY unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me.

In speaking with Benedictine nuns later in my life, I found out that the IHM nuns, since their founding, were mostly sent in to hard-scrabble communities full of poverty, large families, alcoholism, violence and such, I would see that all around, although none of those were my personal experience, and so the assurance that we were not actually children of these imperfect earthly vessels, but merely issues, was evidenced by them fulfilling their only duty on earth, which was to guide us towards our real, heavenly parents, and here we were in parochial schooling. Inculcation complete.

I don't begrudge it, not one second. Once I found out Mary is more than the BVM, that that is but ONE name for The Great Goddess, I was hooked, because "God is not a boy's name" (-the Episcopal Women's Caucus), and a man can't create something out of nothing, only WOMEN can do that, and we were ALL created in God's image, so God is at LEAST half-woman, gewrl ... FLY to Mary, you've got to FLY to huh.

You know, If you and I have worked together there's probably been a point in your life where things are all going to hell and I left a holy card of Mary on your desk with a note that says, "Look upon the beautiful lady ! All will be well !" and I believe that. There's not a week that goes by where I don't find a picture of huh, or a statue of huh, or call her up in my mind's eye and gaze upon here and like a big ole Methodist woman in a rocking chair, she takes my hand between her two big motherly paws, and she pats my hand and whispers quietly and calmly, ||: it's O-kay ... it's all going to be O...kay ... there's now :||

TURN OFF ! these programs with these hysterical reports. We're not even CLOSE ! to the bad news, so what's it going to be like when it is, a re-run of the move AIRPLANE ! ? Watch a video of a beautiful field of flowers with bird's chirping, and glance at headlines ... there's no REAL news other than #StayAtHome and #FlattenTheCurve. and from me? #LookAtTheBeautifulLady xoxo

Wednesday, March 18, 2020

Jane his wife ...




If you're not dressing while working at home, don't forget Jane Jetsons' trick of having a Video Phone Mask handy ! xoxo

It's HARDER than Homeschooling


This woman is a personal hero of mine. I've know her since before the kids, and you should know she has successfully homeschooled a 14, 13 & almost 11 year old since grammar school, and by successfully I mean they haven't killed her (yet), and she hasn't killed them yet, either. They are brilliant and loving and curious and helpful and interested kids, if you met them your heart would melt and you'd have some of THEE MOST interesting conversations you can imagine ... so if you're navigating this situation right now, this is the best advice around, imho xoxo

" Hello to all the people who have suddenly been thrown into homeschooling. This is a crazy situation. I’m hoping it might help you if I share some advice based on my homeschooling experience. Just as each school is different, each homeschooling family is different, and that’s to be expected.

First of all, the situation you’re in is harder than homeschooling. All sports and extracurricular activities have been canceled. Museums and other great learning institutions are closed. People are being slammed on social media for being outside. Those of us who have been homeschooling are nervous too. We know all the things that we can’t do right now are the things that make homeschooling in NYC (and other places) great. They are the things that keep us balanced, happy, and sane. So please keep in mind, being trapped and schooling is not the same as homeschooling. This will be harder and much more socially isolating. I’m not telling you this to be a downer, I’m telling you so you know you’re not crazy when you struggle with it. Those of us who have homeschooled through multi-record-setting-blizzard winters absolutely sympathize.

Now, let’s move on to the good news. This is a great opportunity to cater to each child’s learning style. Has your kindergartener been struggling with sight words? Try teaching them phonetically. Does multiplying fractions cause meltdowns? Google some videos of other people explaining it until one clicks for them. This can be a great time to help a child improve in areas where they’ve been struggling.

If there is an area that you feel your child needs extra attention, you might want to get a curriculum supplement that caters to their weaker areas. I recommend browsing Homeschool Buyers Co-op. They offer group buys to lower the cost of popular curriculums and supplements. Their reviews can also help you decide if it would be a good fit for your child.

GENERAL TIPS:

(I hesitated to share these. The most important thing for you to know is you should handle this in whatever way works best for you. However, some of the things that I feel help me the most took me a while to figure out. So just like all other parenting decisions, pick and choose what to try in your house.)

-Be gentle on all of you. This is a huge adjustment being made during unusually limiting times. It is not going to be fabulous. Aim for decent and celebrate anything beyond that.

-Modify your schedule to work for you. If your school doesn’t require your child to login at a certain time, feel free to adjust it. Ease your stress and cater to what your family needs right now. You can do 4 longer days each week, or 6 or 7 shorter days to accommodate parents’ work schedules. Splitting up your day with a big break in between can also ease the tension of a long school day. Think outside the box. As long as they are learning, it’s fine.

-Use your time wisely. Let your child quickly do the subjects that are easier for them. Let them take more time on other subjects. This is one of the biggest advantages of homeschooling. Enjoy the flexibility of not having a typical schedule.

-If you have multiple children, rotating subjects and breaks helps a lot. Help one with math while the rest read or work on a subject that doesn’t need much assistance. Sometimes having an older child help a younger child works well, and helps them both. Letting one have a break while the others work also helps each child feel they have a little time “alone” while stuck at home.

-Concede on things that don’t matter. Continuing to learn and make progress is important. Brushing teeth is important. Getting fully dressed, which offers so many ways to delay the day, might not be important. The current rule in my house is they must have eaten and brushed their hair and teeth before we start school. If they are ready early, they can use that time to play or do what they’d like. The personal time they have before school really helps them focus better during school. On days they don’t have time to themselves, the whole day is more of a struggle.

-Jumping jacks or pushups as a quick break can help get out frustration and refocus a kid when you are both ready to lose it. Assign it as an exercise to get blood pumping to the brain, not as a punishment. You’re all in this together.

-Moving locations can help them focus, depending on the kid. Some focus better in one spot so they don’t get distracted. Some will find every distraction they can when they are left in one spot for too long. Separating siblings in different rooms sometimes helps. My kids tend to switch spots every time they do the next subject, and it works for us. One of my kids does his math standing at the kitchen counter and it helps him more than any other thing we’ve tried. He moves around while he’s thinking, and he’s progressing faster than when I had him sit at a table to do his math. My other two sit to do math or they’ll just wander away.

-Do let the kids take a break a few times each school day. Depending on how challenging their work is before or after the break, we usually vary their breaks from 10-20 minutes.

-Just like other areas of parenting, people will tell you the “right” way to do it. Co-sleep or cry it out? Breastfeed or formula? Strict learning at a desk or discussing history while hanging upside down off the couch? Listen/read for tips that might work for you, and then do it your way. If it’s not working, try a different way.

-Don’t feel you need to know it all. It’s good for your kids to see you assess what’s working and try different methods. It’s a skill you want to teach them. And if you don’t understand the lesson, google it together. Going to library is out of the question right now, but you can still teach them how to be resourceful.

I’m sure I’ve forgotten a few things, so maybe I’ll edit this later. But for now, know all of the homeschoolers are pulling for you in this strange time, and we’ll respond to your questions when we are able to. This is a tricky time for us as well, but we certainly have a head-start here and most are happy to help where we can.

Wishing good health to you & all who are important to you,
Rindy
NYC Homeschooling mom of three (ages 14, 13 & almost 11) "

PollyAnna here !


PollyAnna here. Any chance to look at this as an enormous opportunity for personal and spiritual growth? I know when I get monkey brain, I know when I get anxious or testy or want to crawl out of my skin that sometimes I need to cut out the caffeine. I also know that claustrophobic feeling of walking around touching objects, turning in circles, what can I do where can I go sort of feeling.

There's a peace that just sitting still brings. There are 10-hour long videos of waves crashing on the shore, of rivers babbling or roaring over rocks, fields of flowers and birdies chirping. There are entire channels on Pluto.TV of riding on the top of steam-engine trains ! through the German countryside ! There are videos out the window of the front car of the N train from Ditmars all the way down to Coney Island.

The Truth is hard to find nowadays and sometimes we're so eager to keep on top of everything that we don't fast from that, even for a moment, to just sit and breathe. Just sit and listen to the quiet of all the city noises. Sit and listen to your own breath and think of the miracle of that ! there are people on respirators who CAN'T breathe and then thank God you can still breathe on your own ! REALLY live inside all your blessings today and realize how very much there is to be thanksful for, wanna? LOVE YOU ! xoxo

Just a Lil Lipstick, kay?


Don't forget what Roonie says: << Newton's First Law of Motion: Your fatazz IN motion STAYS in motion ! Wake up and get dressed ! and then GET AT it, get at The Day. >> There is always something to get done, even if it's odious ... like, I need to clean every single slat on those Venetian blinds over there. I need to rearrange some shelves, I could always take on online course to brush up on my html skills ... Keep active, that's my motto, although my entire being is yearning to lay down and give up. Let's get TO IT ! ! even if it's just a lil lipstick. Remember: "If you LOOK good, you feeeel good, and i you FEEEEL good? you DO ! good." Love and kisses to you where you are from me right here in our home's Ladies-of-Llangollen Room at werk. WERK werk werk werk werk xoxo

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

And that's the truthhhhhhhh ...




I have to pull myself back from the past so often that I could be a rubber band high flying act with a Cirque show, I’m not kiddin’ … but different from those waterfalls of shame from my remote yoot which populate a majority of those gambols down memory lane, I often think of the OUR TOWN gag with Em’ly Webb wanting to go back to visit home after she dead. That too is different from the basic chestnuts along the lines of “OH ! To be young again ...”

I don't wanna be young again.

I wouldn't mind SPRINGING up off a chair again, I would LOVE to sit on the floor to read the paper ... sorry, I would love to be able to GET BACK UP OFF the floor after reading the paper ... but go back to before? That's a sack of cold chestnuts, Mister ...

The first negotiation point for me would be

:==> Would I know what I know now back then?

If I did, could I affect history?

If I couldn’t affect history, then what a cruel fate; I can’t imagine a worse purgatory.

What would be the point, no … what could be more painful than going back in the past, knowing what you know now, and not being able to fix anything, not being able to TALK THROUGH things with people, not to be able to tell people, OH ! JUST WAIT ! Glad Times is Just Around the Corner !

and then, the waste ... just having to sit there and watch the waste, the waste of time, the waste of energy, the waste of moments you could HAVE BACK and make better USE of … the years you spent doing “this” because you were in such pain from “that” ... buh …

If I hadn’t been in that pain and hadn't gone off to do "that" instead of "this" then I wouldn’t have met people, some of whom are my trydest and truest friends to this day. I couldn't have said things randomly to rando people who have come back to me years later to say, you'll never know how that random thing changed my life ...

Let's try this one:

:==> Would I know what I know now back then?

No?

Then calmly I say, if I were just placed back in time ignorant of the future? then this entire incarnation would TRULY be a cosmic joke, wouldn’t it? and that would make The Creator cruel, too bloody cruel, and I know cruelty, and I know true beauty, and I believe in my heart of hearts there’s just too much beauty in the world for that to be true.

No, what I’m talking about is that kind of being young where you know that you know that you’re right.

What you DON’T know, because you’re young, is that you may be “right,” but you’re not “correct.”

If you were correct, you wouldn’t have to insist the other person is “wrong,” even while saying, “I completely understand what you’re saying, but the TRUTH is …”

How rude …

How smug, how priggish … are you KIDDING me?

You don't know what the truth is ... "You're so young you can wash your face with Lemon Pledge, it wouldn't make a difference." Richard Wall ...

Know what? in REAL olden times you had to WALK everywhere, and I don’t mean up the block, I mean to JERUSALEM, I mean like DAYS, like, ohmuhguh are we THERE yet ?! I mean like, ohmuhguh does he have to pee AGAIN ?

But also, OH ! the stories ! and the SONGS and the distrations of simple people without electronics

and if you don’t like the story being told, go back there, your uncle is telling another one.

OR !

When your uncle would say, “Well, that’s the way your MOTHER tells it, but what REALLY happened was …”

That’s what the Gospels are made of … those are the differences in all the Gospel stories … that’s why they’re all so DELICIOUS … that’s why it’s so hard to watch white gentiles who have dedicated their lives to other white gentiles who hijacked the pagan culture, the Roman gods, the Greek gods, the Celtic stories, THE GODDESS, Jewish culture, Jewish heritage, Jewish alef-bet, the Jewish God, and cut off all the original people who had studied all those things, put their male whiteness all over a simple discussion about whether something could be two things at once, or three or a cornucopia ! of things at once, and the answer comes back, . “I completely understand what you’re saying, but the TRUTH is …”

hmph.

The truth.

Wanna know a low-down dirty dirty truth?

Jesus …

pooped.

Jesus had to stop every now and again and squat down in the earth and find something to wipe with ‘cause Jesus pooped.

“And that,” said Edith Ann, “is the truthhhhhhhhh …”

Selah.

A Wise Woman once led me to this Understanding:

The closer a person is to God, the less noise they make, ‘cause there are no answers a human can offer about God, you have to spend time in God’s radiance to even come close to The Knowing.

The closer a person is to God, the less they need to protest anyone’s contradiction of their understanding of God, since God is all things to all, and we are each made in God’s image.

I can pretend what it’s like to walk around as you, but I can never come close to imaging what it’s like to walk around inside as you.

There’s nothin’ nobody can prove to nobody … you can try to convince somebody, but that's not proving it, and until somebody have an Experience, an Awakening, a Meetin’, an Enounter, that person is just gonna have to take your word for it and that still doesn’t prove nuttin.

The closer a person is to God, the more compassion that person feels for people who aren't closer to God, 'cause you can see when others really need to spend time with God? they're ... noisy and twitchy, ain't much joy, just a lot of Uptight and Rightness ....

The greater the Quest for Wisdom, the closer a person is to God, for the closer a person is to God, the Truth is Evident:

God is Errthang and we’re not even close to knowin’ none of it. xoxo

Monday, March 9, 2020

Ladies and Germs, Welcome to The Full Moon In Virgo, March 2020.


I’m blessed enough to have a couple of long-time friends who were born and bred in old-time, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn Brooklyn, not this Busch Gardens Theme Park Variety Brooklyn you hear about these days with their Peter Pan Boys with their beards braided with beads, and their ... wuhl, anyway, real Brooklyn.

They’re not easy to come by, friends from Brooklyn, ‘cause they don’t trust no one no how, and they can smell a load of bull walkin’ a mile away. If you’re introduced in to their circle, they’ll keep you near, but not close while they evaluate you, and then one day something’ll happen and they’ll slap you on the shoulder or grab your hand and squeeze it, and you know you’re “in” 'cause they know YOU'RE in this for the long-haul, and you got a friend for life.

One of the things these gals do is, they’re not PollyAnna’s for sure, they know the UnReal from the Real, but life is tough enough on the stoop, right? And you gotta work hard for your food and there’s enough crap flying around, so there’s no reason to dwell on what’s awful, ‘cause that makes it’s own noise, right? The important part of life is to ENJOY, with GUSTO. Enjoy THIIS cup of coffee, THAT pretty flower, and gather together to actively participate in a communal life, and encourage one another daily by pointing out what’s most glorious and most beeyoodeeful in this world and build one another up. That way a gal is filled with hope of a bright future, and it’s easier to walk out in to the world, head held high, for another bright day on This Journey, bouncing along filled with love and support and the best tidings everyone’s got.

That’s all the Universe is asking of us now, once again: to choose to concentrate on The Good News and not The Other Stuff. And outside of the news, we have to navigate the people-ie world, and we can choose to beat down other people along the path, drag other people, blame other people, all along, all the time, or we can just cut the crap, stand strong in our role as a positive, creative force in this universe, and just push content of life and love and hope and joy. And try not to grab on to hurt feelings along the way, we've got to stop being so sensitive. We're warriors. Arrows are going to ping our armor. Bummer. Keep goin'. You're the best, you're the brightest, you're the one who is going to make a difference, and without you, NONE of this is possible.

Ladies and Germs, Welcome to The Full Moon In Virgo, March 2020.

She’s going full New York time on Monday, March 9th at 12:47 pm. Oh, there’s a party ! goin’ on up there. Guess who else has a number in the show?

Mercury is going “Stationary Direct” Monday at 10:59 pm.
You know how this goes, maybe you just didn’t know this word for it.

During any retrograde, there is a moment when Mercury is at a point in the sky where it APPEARS as though it's going backwards, then he stands still, Stationary, then he goes forward to where he was when this all started (bringing all the crap back at you you didn't deal with? or bringing all the blessings of having DEALT with it), moving direct, and THIS time in March 2020 he’s gonna chug right straight forward through Aquarius straight on to Pieces, where there’s going to be another kind of a party around the middle of the month.

and these are BOTH pieces of GREAT news … if we’ll keep on the sunny side …

I’ve never really been one for astrology as a tool of prognostication. I’ve only ever looked at the scattering of the heavenly bodies as a general guide for us, like the pregnancy of a full moon … that’s a physical trend of physics, right? The surge of the tides, and people’s general dispositions during those days?

Wuhl, things are aligning in the heavens in patterns the planets only make during certain times during the history of the universe, and it would be silly to ignore those patterns and not to draw conclusions from data we have at hand, right? ‘cause sometimes lately when I’m studying, I feel like “The Wizard” just before Toto pulls the curtain back to reveal a stumpy old man with a bitchin’ fog machine. But … here goes.

Remember last month? (here: http://bit.ly/LookingBack2Look4ward) we talked about how we need to think about the next spiritual semester in our training as going from the beginning of this year through to the end of the year in an arc? That we’re picking up benefits from all the hard work we put in last year, prepping and planning and exercising muscles to “avoid da noid,” i.e., stepping out the way when petulant selfish people stomp about in puddles so that we don’t get splashed and just keep our head down, focused on The
Goals, training to run The Race?

Well, we’re transitioning right now from a 200 year cycle of top-down patriarchy into a lovely glorious land of flowers and spring breezes with very high yin energy. Problem is, those fellas don’t wanna leave quietly, as you can see from even headlines in the PennySaver. What’s happening in the heavens, though, is everything is about to be revealed, lies will be uncovered, and the world will slowly see that The Emperor Has No Clothes.

The sticky bit is, that may just be true for everyone, so if we're hiding stuff, get ready for the lights to come up. We need to continue to clean out all our closets so last call doesn’t come upon us quickly or by surprise and the gunk is out of the corner of our eye and we got no smudges. Good news is, coming out of that uncovering, for those who are concentrating on doing their best for the universe, will only bring deeper understanding within the circles they populate, the uncovering will bring us closer together.

To get technical, you’ll remember that Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and Pluto are all hanging out together, still, in Capricorn. That’s a helluva party. They’re all earth signs, we’re all being pulled to the ground with the weight of their meeting, but through the end of the year, everyone rushes toward air signs for the first time in 200 years, and we’ll all feel lighter and brighter and shiney and new. Gotta get there first, though.

MARS is energy and action. Mars reigns over willpower and yet loves to stir up spastic energy and activity. Mars is considered a personal planet, reflecting basic psychological functions in the personality. Mars energizes.

JUPITER loves expansion, indulgence, growth, optimism, risk taking. Jupiter governs our ethics, our philosophy about life, where we want to learn and how we can benefit from that knowledge. Jupiter is a lucky charm that expands whatever it touches, thus showing what it is that we do on a large scale. Jupiter is about the search for truth, and governs law, religion, philosophy, and education.

SATURN loves hardworking and ambitious people with discipline and commitment, and to reward those persons who work hard with fame and success and achievement and a sterling legacy.

PLUTO is the great revealer, but often there's a dark night before the rebirth. Pluto brings to mind purging, exorcising, and releasing buried power or core truths. It's the planet of creative destruction, and transits can feel like extended ordeals.

Now let’s lay on top of that the full moon in VIRGO. Virgo has a deeply-rooted presence in the material world. Virgo is logical, practical, and systematic in its approach to life. Virgo is structured, goal-oriented, stabilizing, and loves harmony. Those tendencies are brought out in us in the fullness of this moon.

Let’s lay on top of that the fact that the full moon is appearing in the heavens completely opposite the Sun and Neptune in Pisces. This is where it gets really funky.

Neptune is linked to daydreaming, fantasy, fairy tales, theatre, ghost stories, and spirituality, e.s.p., and magic and ritual; creative imagination, intuition in its highest forms, spiritualism and religion and mysticism. Neptune helps bring cosmic consciousness in contact with reality. The downside of Neptune is, it can also govern illusion, confusion, and deceit. We’ve had enough of that for a good bit, though, right?

Aha! But isn’t Neptune sitting right next to the sun who is going to shine a bright light ! on all the lies and deceit ! All of that power and light is going to help actualize our dreams, for you see, the full moon opposite Neptune and the Sun in Pisces triangulates that party in Capricorn where Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and Pluto are all hanging out ! All the old structures that are no longer working will be transformed in to a new paradigm.

Oh, I’m sorry, did I forget to tell you that this full moon in the sign of Virgo is actually physically located in the constellation of Leo? Ohmuhguh, seriously? Leo. Leo the Lion. Leo with the gorgeous hair. Leo the beneficent. Leo the supporter, Leo the Get ‘er Done of the Zoadiac. Leo bright light who shows up at the party with a great, HEY GANG ! and pushes his way through the crowds spreading light and joy. Leo, the bringer together, Leo the problem solver, Leo the Lion-Hearted.

That’s how we’re gonna be infused with all manner of good feelings, happiness, and harmony through Virgo, with Jupiter’s tendency to make all things it touches expand, so, expansive kindness … because we’re being supported by Leo. Leo encourages a collective focus on home, family, respect for eternity, stillness, and the Presence of the Divine. Leo makes us feel better about ourselves and encourages us to find our best selves, to recognize our Divinity, to walk in our feyusness, and reminds us Who We Are and our VITAL Place in the Cosmos.

And to foil any negative aspects Neptune may have toward deception, confusion, and scandal, this placement in Leo will bring feelings of satisfaction because we remember our integrity, all our hard work, and the trust we have toward the beneficence of the Universe and the faith we hold that all will be well.

SEE ?!?! aren’t you GLAD Mercury is slowing down and stopping to stand still in the heavens so that we can breathe and languish in this moment of completion when all these dots get connected, and all these patterns form? Oh, yeah, be happy Mercury stands still for a second, too, ‘cause we’re also gonna need that moment to Pin Our Wigs Securely, and make sure we’re ready, ‘cause the rocket is about to launch, and we’re going to get catapulted straight through to the end of the year soon.

It’s the moment for profound change.

You in? There’s lots more work to do, but we’ve come this far, right? And there HAVE been rewards since the beginning of the year for all our hard work last year, right? You've experienced is, right? And this end of the Mercury Retrograde (March 30th, shuddup, I know) is going to re-solidify those blessings and give us the courage to dig deeper, plan harder, clean out drawers with a little more dedication, and continue to get our ducks in a row.

This is a good time to overcome our fears, and to tap in to the fact that we really don’t suck as much as we suspect we do, we’re really not the imposters we think we are, we’re not weak, and we haven’t been slacking off, we’re actually really good at all this stuff, and we need to shake off those HORRIBLE voices in our heads, ONCE, for ALL, and take full possession of THIS moment, not blaming anyone else for shortfalls, especially ourselves, just relishing THIS moment, and planning for OUR future.

We are poised to grow at such a great pace, spiritually, morally and ethically, and that growth is made so much sweeter by sloughing off the past, and removing guilt and self-pity which FINALLY will lead to a happier and more contented life.

Let’s try this on for size, shall we? The entire Universe is poised to support us and make our dreams come true.

Friday, March 6, 2020

Creators Creating


It's so interesting to me that The Creator doesn't want to be memorialized as a representation made to be gazed upon; instead, we are to gaze upon all the beauty of that which is Created and be dazzled by all the activity of The Creation.

It's magical really.

Oh, sure, we have all the hints at aspects of the Creator's personality and charism, and the symbols of the tools with which we are blessed, all in plaster and bronze and paints and gold in various forms with various faces.

But as a Creative Being, the Creator seemingly wants us only to deal in these symbols to keep our brains and spirits active, that we might fashion a world through our prayers and contemplation around each symbol we are presented, remembering past triumphs and envisioning future blessings.
We've been given quite a gift, really, that we don't need to only picture God one way. Whether blue or baby or wizened or flying about, God is who we need God to be at all times throughout our lives, you know?

We're the only ones who can put a limit on ourselves, we who are created in the image of the Creator, and we're the only ones who can put a limit to The Creator, a being with no limits.
We flourish or perish at our own hand oftentimes, at least spiritually. Let's choose to keep our eyes gazing upon all that is good and pleasant and lovely, and let's make sure to live a rapturous life, and live it with exuberance in great abundance, shall we? Selah xoxo